Finding Happiness

4} Positive Thinking:-
Most of us have doubts and fear about our ability to make a mark in life. Our mind keeps telling us “I cannot do it, I can’t achieve it”. Since the mind rules the body it is not surprising when the body believes everything that the mind suggests. We are left behind in life causing great unhappiness.

Now, is the time to take a new look and the situation. It is not difficult to change our negative outlook towards life. The magic lies is personal belief. When you belive that you are capable of doing something, your body belives it too. Make positive thinking a part of your life. Always look to the brighter side the things

5} facing problems boldly:-
Every body has good and bad times. If it were not for bad times we would not work hard to make life a success and we would take good times for granted. Every one has his or her moment of joys but there will be occasions of grief, defeat and heartbreak. Even the happiest person is not free from them. The only difference is that the happy man looks at the brighter side of problems and believes in his ability to find reasonable solution.

Whenever there is problem always find out the worst that can happen if you do not solve the problem. In most of the cases you will observe that they are not half of serious as we consider them to be

6} Learn to be successful:-
Nothing is more stimulating than success in our venture. Nobody can reach the top in single attempt. One must raise one step at a time. To prepare yourself for a big success that will eventually become a part of your life, learn to achieve success in small everyday activities at home and outside. Each small success achieved will prepare you for the bigger successes.

7} Don’t be selfish:-
Each one of us is selfish to some degree. All our action are motivated by personal benefit. The mo0re we think of ourselves the more self centered we become. This narrow outlook eventually makes us miserable and unhappy


To overcome these problems learn to share things. Try to do little acts without a vested interested and you will be rewarded in many ways will give you true happiness.


8} Build good friendships:-
A good friend is indispensable. He stimulates us to greater height of success. To make friends, learn to be friendly. A smile is quickest way to dissolve barriers. Encourage people to talk about themselves. A good listener is always welcome than a person who talks a lot... Different people have different views and ideas. Learn to accept things. To enlarge your circle of friends develop interest in a variety of subjects. Treat your friends as you want them to treat you.


Points to ponder
1)Happiness is primary aim in life.
2]Understand what happiness means to you
3}Lasting happiness comes from peace of mind .
4}Yesterday is no more .Let it not spoil our happiness today.
5}Au idle mind is a store house of unhappiness.
6}It takes the same efforts to think positive as it does to think negative
7}Nobody is without problem . look at brighter side of life.
8] Learn to be successful . happiness will follow .
9} Share your life with god . Never give up.