Finding Happiness
Finding Happiness
A man’s place in society depends upon the images he projects of himself. In the hope of achieving good results most people go to great lengths to win the approval of the people who matter to them. It is this desire for appreciation that compels people to dress to attract attention, to build and decorate their homes, to acquire status symbols like cars, imported appliances etc.
However these people do not realize that they entered a never ending race. It is a race nobody can possibly win.
Each one of us is many people in one. Most people are content as they are. Nevertheless not the complete man. For the complete man ,the best rule is to do what comes naturally. Do not try to do things that are contrary to your basic nature. If you prefer your own company rather than being at a loud party, do not let it hurt your cons science. In the same way. If you are man of action , it will do you no good if you decide to do something that requires a lot of thinking . Living unnaturally cannot be disguised. It will only promote tension. Therefore, the secret of success really lies in developing that which you can do effortlessly and in trying to effortlessly and in trying to eliminate what makes you tense and uneasy.
Life is continuous struggle for existence, only the fittest can make a mark in life
1) Happiness:-
What does happiness mean to you?
Good health? Harmony at home? Lots of money
Happiness comes from peace of mind. This in turn comes from self discipline. It is a plain simple daily effort. It becomes a habit.
2) Don’t live in past :-
Many people are unable to enjoy their present blessing because some of the unpleasantness of the past still liger in their mind. If may be their unhappy childhood, lack of education or an unfortunate incident or something similar. Each time it comes to their mind it builds back the unhappy memories as though it happened just today.
If you want to be happy today do not think of unpleasant memories. You must learn to enjoy what you have today and not worry about what you could have earlier.
3) Keep yourself busy:-
In the beginning, many of our problems are only stray thought. However, though repetition in the idle moments of your life even the more imaginary problems become realistic, tormenting our peaceful existence.
To be happy learn to keep busy. Plan a balanced routine for yourself allotting time for leisure, time for family and friends. Do not confuse rest or relaxation with idleness. Develop new interests. Make friends. When you are busy there will be no time to think of imaginary problems. To be continued……
A man’s place in society depends upon the images he projects of himself. In the hope of achieving good results most people go to great lengths to win the approval of the people who matter to them. It is this desire for appreciation that compels people to dress to attract attention, to build and decorate their homes, to acquire status symbols like cars, imported appliances etc.
However these people do not realize that they entered a never ending race. It is a race nobody can possibly win.
Each one of us is many people in one. Most people are content as they are. Nevertheless not the complete man. For the complete man ,the best rule is to do what comes naturally. Do not try to do things that are contrary to your basic nature. If you prefer your own company rather than being at a loud party, do not let it hurt your cons science. In the same way. If you are man of action , it will do you no good if you decide to do something that requires a lot of thinking . Living unnaturally cannot be disguised. It will only promote tension. Therefore, the secret of success really lies in developing that which you can do effortlessly and in trying to effortlessly and in trying to eliminate what makes you tense and uneasy.
Life is continuous struggle for existence, only the fittest can make a mark in life
1) Happiness:-
What does happiness mean to you?
Good health? Harmony at home? Lots of money
Happiness comes from peace of mind. This in turn comes from self discipline. It is a plain simple daily effort. It becomes a habit.
2) Don’t live in past :-
Many people are unable to enjoy their present blessing because some of the unpleasantness of the past still liger in their mind. If may be their unhappy childhood, lack of education or an unfortunate incident or something similar. Each time it comes to their mind it builds back the unhappy memories as though it happened just today.
If you want to be happy today do not think of unpleasant memories. You must learn to enjoy what you have today and not worry about what you could have earlier.
3) Keep yourself busy:-
In the beginning, many of our problems are only stray thought. However, though repetition in the idle moments of your life even the more imaginary problems become realistic, tormenting our peaceful existence.
To be happy learn to keep busy. Plan a balanced routine for yourself allotting time for leisure, time for family and friends. Do not confuse rest or relaxation with idleness. Develop new interests. Make friends. When you are busy there will be no time to think of imaginary problems. To be continued……
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